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Kalli Halpern posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 2, 2019
I came to know Lou through wonderful stories Patricia told.
I came to know Lou through his writings- I reread each one.
-enjoying his wonderful humor and humanity.
What a gifted story teller!
His love of Patricia shone..
He knew how to be a friend-that was clear .
I know he is not far away.
Kalli Halpern East Lansing, Mlchigan
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Hugh J McCann uploaded photo(s)
Friday, March 15, 2019
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Lou - simply a genius with a BBQ!
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Hugh J McCann uploaded photo(s)
Friday, March 15, 2019
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Lou and his friend at his seats above first base at the 'New' Yankee Stadium.
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Steven Kunes posted a condolence
Friday, March 15, 2019
I’ve thought about you so many times over the many years since you were my professor at Rutgers during the summer of 1976. Today I thought to myself, why not track down Louie and get together for a drink? I missed you by 19 days, buddy. My loss. Thanks for the positive impact you made on my life as a young man. Sweet dreams...until we meet again...
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Scott Turner uploaded photo(s)
Monday, March 4, 2019
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Sorry to hear about Lou's passing. He hired me at MRI and for that I am eternally grateful. Truly one of a kind. Here is a photo I found of Alain and Lou at one of MRI's Chicago client celebrations, this one at the old Moosehead Grill on or near Fat Tuesday in the mid 90's.
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Pete Bristow posted a condolence
Friday, March 1, 2019
We were Delta Chi fraternity brothers at Michigan State in the mid-1960s. I thank him for his Army military service. He was one of the most unique individuals I had the pleasure to know while at MSU.
Eternal peace Brother Bender.
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Joseph Ramos posted a condolence
Thursday, February 28, 2019
Lou was a very special person. The way he carried himself had a great impact on me as a young man when I attended Rutgers University. So much so, that I asked him to write a recommendation for me for Dental school. I got in and would credit him for it every time I saw him afterwards. He had the ability to connect with people and treated everyone with dignity and respect. A very special person indeed who will be greatly missed.
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Boylan Funeral Home lit a candle
Thursday, February 28, 2019
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Jim Foley uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, February 28, 2019
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Sweet Lou at Stan's Yankee Stadium - May 2013
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Hugh McCann uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
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Lou leaving Stans to go over to see the Yankees.
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Paul Caccia posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
Sweet Lou ... your "office" at Stan's before Yankee games will never be the same. Til we catch another game together
Paulie
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Kathi Love posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
Lou was my friend and mentor. I laughed with him, complained to him and could talk to him for hours. I will miss him so very much, but I feel lucky to have wonderful memories. Now if I could only remember some of those jokes...
Love to you Patricia and please let Glenn and I know if we can help you in any way.
Love, Kathi
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Kathi Love uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
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NO, that is NOT a missing tooth! That's a cigar clamped in his mouth as he guides The Pit into still waters.
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Kathi Love uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
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Heading back to NYC after a day on Alain's boat, the Pit. We were in a hurry because he had to catch a Yankee game on TV!
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Kathi Love uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
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Reverend Lou getting ready to officiate at Alain's wedding.
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Jim Foley posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
Sweet Lou loved his Yankees and life. We love and miss you Lou.
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E Bennett posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 27, 2019
To the family of the deceased: Please accept my sincere sympathy. It breaks our hearts when death separates us from our love one's. Please accept the scripture at Revelation 21-3-5 where it says there will be no more pain, crying, or dying in the hope that has been promised. 1st. Thessalonians 4:13-14 refers to death as a deep sleep. Looking forward with you for the wonderful day when those we love so much awakens from their sleep. John 5:28-29.
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Hugh McCann uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
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Phuoc Vinh Vietnam August 1967
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Hugh McCann uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
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Lou's (a.k.a. 'Dave C') Taken at Phuoc Vinh Vietnam July 1967. 1st Battalion H.H.C - Recon Platoon
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Hugh McCann uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
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Phuoc Vinh Vietnam August 1967
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Hugh McCann uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
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John, David C (Louie), Woody, Tex - Dec 2014
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Hugh McCann uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
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John, David C (Louie), Woody, Tex - Dec 2014
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Joel Higgins posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
The Right Reverend Lou Bender and I bonded when I emceed and he won the Ugliest Greek contest where he appeared as "Tarzan Retired". A perfect example of his incredible sense of humor. He was a great man and one of my best friends and one of the greatest MSU alumni. I will miss his humor, humanity and loyalty more than I can say. Rest easy, my brother. I love you.
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Bobbi Clapsaddle posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
Lou was quite the guy! I still remember sitting on the front porch of Homestead at with my parents when you all walked by. Remember Pat? My mom thought Lou was your dad! Oops!!! Well, that oops was the stepping stone to many, many years of friendship. Our entire family looked forward to seeing Lou and Pat every summer at Kathan Kamps.
He will truly be missed.
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